Q: I wonder if you can give me some advice. I am feeling very hurt [...]
Ask Jackie: she says we are a bad influenceCreated by Jackie Highe in Ask Jackie, No contact
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internationella jobba hemifrån dagen تحليل اليورو دولار The family helped them move into their new flat before the baby was born and things were a little better but for no reason that we can fathom she started saying that we were a bad influence to her baby and she didn’t want any negativity around her daughter. That was seven months ago. Since then I have tried my best to get things back on track so to speak. My granddaughter’s 1st birthday is fast approaching and so is Christmas and still nothing I do helps.
اسهم السعودية اليوم مباشر منتدى الاسهم السعوديه She checks my son’s phone and his emails. She has blocked us all from facebook – not just her accounts but also my son’s. She times him to and from work. My son and I barely get to talk any more and he has lost a lot of weight. I try not to call him but as a grandmother for the first time I naturally want to know how my granddaughter is doing, how she is developing and so forth. I also want to know how things are going between them as he looked so ill and thin the last time I saw him. We do have a couple of mutual friends so second hand information is what I have to settle with. Please can you help me. I don’t know what I am supposed to do next. Many thanks for reading my letter..here’s hoping you can advise me on what to do next.
http://i3group.com.au/?klykva=%D8%B7%D8%B1%D9%82-%D9%84%D9%83%D8%B3%D8%A8-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%85%D8%A7%D9%84-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B3%D8%B1%D9%8A%D8%B9-%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%89-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%A7%D9%86%D8%AA%D8%B1%D9%86%D8%AA&e33=3b A: My first instinct when I read your letter was that your son’s partner is marking her territory – she was fine until she became pregnant but then started drawing lines because she wanted to feel in charge of the baby. It’s very common behaviour, in this situation, where she’d been living in your home and ‘under your wing’ so to speak.
This may be the case, and if so, it will gradually wear itself out as she realises you’re not a threat (as long as you don’t interfere too much of course).
But her behaviour since the birth makes me wonder if there might be more going on here. Checking up on your son’s accounts and timing his movements, are worryingly extreme, and it’s clear that they’re causing your son a lot of anxiety. It may be that she’s having a bout of severe baby blues – or even some post natal depression. If this is so she needs help. Baby blues can play itself out – although it’s horrid to live through without support, but PND is a physical illness that needs medical help.
This is a delicate situation and it needs very careful handling. Your son is clearly being loyal to his partner – even if he feels she’s being unreasonable. But he might be worrying that she’s not well, too. Try to have a quiet word with him – on no account come out with the idea that she might be suffering from depression. And don’t get into what she has/hasn’t done or said with regard to the baby and you. Just say you’re worried about her health – that maybe she’s feeling a bit down and a visit to the doctor would be a good idea.
Your son might be deeply relieved to have someone to discuss this with. On the other hand he may reject it out of hand. You can only do your best.
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