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Ask Jackie: do I have rights as a grandparent?Created by Jackie Highe in Ask Jackie, No contact
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مؤشر الاسهم الان click A: Your son’s partner is clearly not keen to have you involved – this is tragic for both you and your granddaughter, but it’s by no means uncommon, I’m afraid. She’s trying to maintain a distance between her child and your family.
http://theshopsonelpaseo.com/?syzen=%D8%B3%D9%88%D9%82-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%A7%D8%B3%D9%87%D9%85-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%82%D8%B7%D8%B1%D9%8A%D8%A9-%D9%85%D8%A8%D8%A7%D8%B4%D8%B1&8ad=eb As a grandparent you have no rights of access to your granddaughter. Keep trying to reach her and if you do, try to speak reasonably to her about how much you love your granddaughter and how very much you’d like to be involved in her life. You can say that you’d adhere to any rules she makes about access to your son – you must, in fact, because she has a right to demand this. You can explain to him that you aren’t being disloyal to him – that for all your sakes it’s a good idea to keep contact – and explain to his ex that you can be of help to her – babysitting and so on.
http://gl5.org/?prikolno=%D8%AA%D9%88%D8%B5%D9%8A%D8%A7%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AE%D9%8A%D8%A7%D8%B1%D8%A7%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AB%D9%86%D8%A7%D8%A6%D9%8A%D8%A9&784=9c If you fail to make contact with her, approach social services and in a calm way, explain the situation. Don’t criticise you son’s ex – just point out all the reasons why you can be of benefit to our granddaughter and the love you can give her. They can mediate for you in this matter – in fact they’re obliged to do so under the law, as long as they think you’ll be good for her.