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Separation Anxiety

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بغيت اشتري اسهم follow url Separation Anxiety can cause huge stress both for the baby or child and the people that care most for them. Education and Parenting writer Phoebe Doyle explores this most delicate of issues.

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source As parents go back to work, impotent it’s often you grandparents who serve as a prominent carer and enormously significant attachment figure for the baby or child. As such, ed separation anxiety, once thought to be predominantly about mother and child, becomes a concern for grandparents too.

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source site sad-child-teddy-bearEducational Psychologist Charles Ward says; “Basically Separation is exactly ‘what it says on the tin.’ Although it can be much more complex than that, it is essentially the emotional problems cause by a form of separation, usually from a parent or other person a child has made a significant bond with.”

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source site The behaviours displayed as a result of this anxiety can vary enormously; whilst some children might cry, scream and even display anger, others might become quiet and introverted. “The problems will cause different types of behavioural problems for different children,” clarifies Ward adding, “and the most common separations that cause anxiety include; hospitalisation of the child, serious illness of the attached figure, when someone dies and when parents separate”.

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get link Of course most children also experience Separation Anxiety if they attend a nursery or child-minders, in fact experts agree that by far the majority of children in this situation experience anxiety to a greater or lesser degree. It can start from around 6-7 months of age and usually peaks around their first birthday.

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الخيارات الثنائية بدون ايداع That said, when a child reaches pre-school age anxiety around their parent’s/grandparents/carers departure can re-surface as they enter into a new and unfamiliar setting, and this can leave them nervous and stressed. At this point it is important to ensure an open dialogue with the practitioners at the setting in order to devise appropriate strategies for helping. Some possible strategies to employ include:

 

  • Allowing them to take a comforter; something that smells of home and the people they love.
  • Always saying “goodbye”, never just leaving – trying to sneak off does not work in the long run.
  • If they are old enough to understand (toddler years onwards) explain to them in child-speak how long you will be gone for. This is because for young children time is a very difficult concept. So tell them what they’ll be doing in the time you’ll be gone, e.g. “you’ll have a little play, then it’ll be snack time and a story and then very soon I’ll be picking you up”.
  • Having a firm and consistent pattern when leaving them – long goodbyes aren’t good either. If things get consistently difficult at the point of goodbye, reconsider how you are doing this.
  • Keep positive and up-beat when in the setting. Hopefully seeing you happy and relaxed will help them to feel this too.

 

When they are beginning in a new setting you can:

 

  • Ensure you’ve practised them being left before; either with a friend or babysitter, building up an hour at a time can be much better than leaving them for a whole day in the first instance. The aim of these shorter sessions is for them to get used to the concept of being left and then you returning – they need to learn that when you’re gone it’s not forever.
  • Find the right setting; all babies and children are different so it’s imperative you consider carefully their personality and use this to guide you in choosing a setting. You may think they are best suited to a larger setting with more children, or somewhere quieter like in the home of a child-minder.
  • Talk to the practitioners; they’ll be well qualified and experienced and should be able to put your mind at rest.

 

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