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The rules for midlife datingCreated by Charlotte in Being You, Relationships
If you’re just getting back into the dating game after a break, you may be a little daunted by where to begin. When it comes to online dating, your profile is the way that other singles are going to learn about who you are and what you’re interested in.
You want to strike the right balance between being honest and not revealing too much too soon. And once you’ve made that connection with someone, you’ll want to plan a great first date where you can really get to know one another.
To ease your apprehension, we’ve come up with a list of handy dos and don’ts to help guide you as you create your online profile, meet great matches, and go on some of the best dates of your life.
DO: Be Honest on your dating profile
When it comes to creating your online dating profile, it’s important to be truthful about the basics: your age, occupation, interests, and hobbies. Fight the urge to exaggerate this information, as online dating is designed to match you at a deep level with other singles who share complementary traits and values.
It’s best to avoid going into depth about your previous relationships or sharing any information that’s really personal. People are attracted to those with a little bit of mystery about them, so save your secrets for when you and your match are already dating.
DO: Mention what you’re looking for in a soulmate
Use your profile to be specific about what you want in an ideal partner. If you’re looking for someone who shares your religious or cultural background, specify that. If you’re not interested in dating someone who already has kids, be clear about that upfront.
DON’T: Dwell on qualities you’re not looking for
Don’t focus on the negative. There’s no need to mention what you don’t want in another person, just concentrate on the things that you are looking for.
Don’t be shy when it comes to highlighting your best qualities, for example: ‘I’m a fun-loving, sensitive guy who loves to make a girl laugh, even if it means making a fool of myself.’ People want to get to know the real you, so it helps to give them an insight into your personality.
DON’T: Be arrogant
There’s no need to boast about your sexual prowess or the size of your bank account. There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and you don’t want to cross it.
Remember, when it comes to dating, the most important thing is just to be yourself. People respond to those who are truly genuine, and it’s easy to tell when someone is putting on a show – so relax and let your personality do the rest!
Click here to find mid-life singles in your area today. Whether you’re looking to date someone based in the UK or across the world, you’re bound to find them online.
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