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Finding love after loss

Created by Charlotte in Being You, Relationships



Whether you’ve been married for a few short months, tadalafil years or decades, cialis losing a partner creates many psychological and emotional hurdles. One such hurdle is how to adapt to your new relationship status.

 

‘Widow’ is a label no one wants to have. However, describing yourself as ‘single’ feels like a large part of your life goes unacknowledged. In amongst these conflicting feelings there is often the desire to begin dating again. The big question is – are you ready to find love for a second time? If you are, these tips will help you start a new phase in your life.

 

Deciding when the time is right

eharmonyGrief is a natural process for dealing with the loss of someone special. How it manifests itself varies from person to person – it’s a very personal and individual experience. In the same way that some find solace in tears, others distract themselves with hobbies – everyone moves on at their own pace.

 

There’s no set length of time before being ready to find someone new. However, to decide if the time is right to move on, consider your motives. If you hope to distract yourself from your grief or are searching for a replacement for your spouse, it’s likely you haven’t quite recovered yet from your loss. When you’re ready, eHarmony.co.uk can help you embrace dating again.

 

 

Overcoming feelings of guilt

Widows often feel they’re betraying their previous partner when seeking out a new relationship. You may feel you’re breaking a promise or being selfish for enjoying life after your partner has died. These feelings of guilt are perfectly natural – it can take several dates before you’re comfortable with the idea of seeing someone else.

 

Instead of putting unnecessary pressure on yourself, remember this is a new chapter in your life. There’s no shame in trying to live life to the full – laugh when you want and take comfort from the fact your departed loved one would have wanted you to be happy.

 

Talking to your children

After a long relationship, it’s likely you’ll have children and, grandchildren. Telling them you’re looking or have found a new partner can be difficult – they’re grieving too and may not readily accept your decision.

 

Introducing your new partner should be done in a sensitive way. It’s important to give family members time to adjust. Be open about your feelings, reassure them but be confident in your decision to start dating.

 

Know what you’re looking for

eharmonyFinding love a second time around shouldn’t be about replacing your partner. However, anyone with a little life experience will have some idea of the qualities they’re looking for in a partner.

 

Online dating is a great way to tailor your search and help you find someone with similar interests to you. Why not consider dating a widower? A shared experience of bereavement will bring you closer together.

 

The main thing is to be open to new experiences and meet new people. A laid-back approach is the best way to be successful. Have fun and follow your heart.

 

Advertorial by eHarmony.co.uk

 

 

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