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Ask Jackie: Parents breaking up

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here A: It’s a very worrying time. Any break-up is a fertile breeding ground for the darker emotions. Couples struggle with resentment, price anger, allergist bitterness and insecurity. They’re in pain, and this can overwhelm them to the point where they put their own desire for revenge before their children’s needs. They use their children to punish each other – sometimes without even being aware that they’re doing it.

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source url Children themselves, caught in the middle, feel as though their whole world is crumbling around them. The people they love most in the world – their parents – seem to have altered dramatically. Everything they know is changing, everything they’ve taken for granted seems to be vanishing – and often they think it’s all their fault. They’re feeling terrified (and guilty).

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بيع اسهم عن طريق اولاين This is where you come in. Please don’t feel helpless – you have a vital role to fulfil. As a loved grandparent, you’re a major part of their lives and you can show them you haven’t changed; that you love them just as much as ever; that you’re not going anywhere, you’re there for them whatever happens; that they can depend on you.


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استراتيجية مثالية الخيارات الثنائية This will put you in a position to do another, very important thing – you can tell her that you’re worried about your grandchildren and what they’re hearing/being told. Don’t wade in and accuse her of lying, or imply her children are running to you – think of how you’d feel if you were her – she’s losing enough as it is, and will be extremely vulnerable to criticism. Just say that you understand how hard it is for her, but being told so much seems to be upsetting the children a bit. This hint might do the trick.

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