A A A | | follow us on twitterfollow us on facebook

Ask Jackie: siblings denied contact

Created by Jackie Highe in Ask Jackie

source site تداول الخيارات الثنائية في المملكة المتحدة Q:  I have 2 of my grandchildren living with me and another younger grandchild who is going to be adopted. I am a single person who works full time.


http://wilsonrelocation.com/?q=%D8%A5%D9%83%D8%B3-%D9%81%D9%88%D8%B1%D9%83%D8%B3 follow I could only offer shared care for the younger child as I also work shifts. The 2 older grandchildren are absolutely desperate to keep in contact with their younger sibling.


go Social services at the outset agreed to the siblings having contact but have since changed their minds. We were also told by the children’s social worker who is now off sick that contact could continue for some time before it is stopped.


الخيارات الثنائية استراتيجية الربح مزدوجة Today I have been informed that we can only see my younger granddaughter on 2 more occasions for 1 hour and that we will have to say goodbye to her on the 2nd occasion. In total we would have only seen her twice since being placed in foster care.


source link I am absolutely appalled and devastated by the events that have taken place and feel that social services are not looking at the best interests of all the children involved. Do my grandchildren not have any Human Rights and can Social Services keep changing their minds?


صرف العملات الأجنبية A: Social services must take the wishes of the siblings into account when making their decisions. That’s written into the Children Act. They’re also bound to promote family contact. The only exception to this is when they feel that contact would be harmful/ dangerous for the children. Then they can ban contact out of hand. If social services have changed their minds, maybe they have new information.


It’s understandable that adoptive parents might want a clean break with the past for their new family member, but unless there are overwhelming reasons for this, it’s very cruel to deprive siblings of each other.


Talk to social services and find out what they’re thinking and why – don’t lose your temper – trust me, however much you want to berate them – and however justified it would be, it won’t help you. Carve that on your forehead. Ask to keep contact – or at least that her siblings can.


If this is refused, you can go through the courts, but it’s expensive, and there’s no guarantee of success.


follow site Jackie


We need to self protect

Since I set up the support group for grandparents who are denied contact with their [...]


Ask Jackie: denied access but wanting to open bank account

Q: Hi, I have a son who is denied access to his children as are [...]


Ask Jackie: special guardianship allowance

Q: Hi Jackie, viagra 40mg  I’m not a grandmother but an aunt who has taken [...]


Are you expecting twins?

We all know how exciting it is when we find out we are going to [...]


Kraamzorg UK to offer lifeline for new mums and dads

Granny to the rescue! Are you worried about how your expectant daughter or daughter-in-law will [...]


A little something for September…

Every so often something goes on the forum that we all think should be shared [...]


Food destination guides inspire us to stay off the chips!

There are certain times in our lives when we want to stick with what we [...]


Have you booked your travel insurance yet?

Why book travel insurance?   Holidays are what many of us look forward to throughout [...]

Austrian Alps150

Summer hiking in the alps

Famed across the world for its supreme skiing, medicine the Alps stretch across thousands of [...]


What to Do If a Child Has an Asthma Attack at School

If getting a call from the school nurse can be unnerving, clinic hearing that your [...]


Top tips on taking care of your grandchildren’s teeth

I am so saddened to see the latest figures for children’s dental decay; three in [...]


Learning Disabilities, Autism and Internet Safety: A Parent’s Guide

A new guide to help parents of children with learning disabilities and autism [...]


Rustic pear and Bramley apple tart

Weather conditions this year have been ideal for the apple harvest and right now is [...]

Patrick Drake150

Moroccan spiced lamb with sweet vegetable stew

Patrick Drake, co-founder and Head Chef of HelloFresh.co.uk commented, “We’ve been hearing all sorts of [...]


Fussy eaters

What’s the fuss? Anyone with children will know that when it comes to eating, for [...]



I found this to be a great all day cream, it was easily absorbed and didn’t leave a sticky residue. [...]



Very thick and luxurious with a pleasant fragrance. Felt more like a special treatment than [...]

Little bird jeans


I received several items from this range to review; a Fairisle cardigan, denim jeans, a long sleeve [...]

Copyright © 2012 Grannynet.co.uk Ltd. All Rights Reserved. Website Design and SEO by Brightenearly Ltd