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Q: My daughter, son-in-law and grandchildren who are 7, 4 and 15 months will be leaving us sometime next year to go and live in Australia. We are happy for them and excited for their move but inside feel devastated. They are a huge part of our lives and we see them lots and have the children to stay over regularly. I don’t know how we’re going to cope as I’m so close to my daughter and love them all to bits. I’m trying to think and act positively and we really want them to live their lives to the full but inside I’m falling apart. Waiting for them to go is so hard and every moment with the children is so special and a little sad. Have you got any advice for me on how to cope with the separation and remain supportive?
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بوب إلى هذا الموقع Try to arrange to see them once a year – either they come to you or you go to them. And I know a family in your situation who meet up halfway and have a holiday together.
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كم وصل اسهم ام القرى And then there’s email. It’s fast, dirt cheap, and you can exchange pictures, music – anything you think will interest each other.
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انقر على هذا الرابط الآن Keep your chin up – the world is a much, much smaller place than it used to be. And love makes it go round, remember.